Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
If you’re craving a nostalgic dessert that feels like a warm hug from Grandma’s kitchen, look no further than Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding. This classic Southern treat layers creamy vanilla pudding, slices of ripe bananas, and soft vanilla wafers for a comforting dessert that’s rich in flavor and steeped in tradition.
Served warm or cold, banana pudding is the kind of dessert that brings people together. Whether it’s at Sunday supper, a family reunion, or a casual weeknight dinner, this sweet, custardy dish always seems to steal the show. The texture contrast between silky pudding and tender cookies is pure bliss.
Why You’ll Love This Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
This pudding is so much more than a simple dessert—it’s an experience. You get the natural sweetness of bananas balanced by a smooth, homemade custard and the gentle crunch of vanilla wafers that slowly melt into the mix. It has that magical ability to taste even better the next day after the flavors have mingled.
It’s also incredibly flexible. Serve it warm for a cozy bite or chilled for a refreshing summer option. Either way, you’re getting a homemade dessert with real ingredients and real comfort.
What Kind of Bananas Work Best for Banana Pudding?
The best bananas for this recipe are just turning speckled—ripe but still holding their shape. You want them sweet and flavorful without being mushy. Overripe bananas might be perfect for banana bread, but for this pudding, firm and ripe is key for that perfect bite.
Ingredients for the Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
To build that luscious layered experience, you only need a handful of simple ingredients, each playing a vital role in flavor and texture.
- Whole Milk
- Granulated Sugar
- All-purpose Flour
- Salt
- Egg Yolks
- Butter
- Vanilla Extract
- Bananas
- Vanilla Wafers
The combination of whole milk, egg yolks, and butter creates a velvety pudding that clings to every banana slice. Flour thickens the base, while vanilla extract brings out a warm, aromatic finish. Bananas are the star, and vanilla wafers round out the Southern charm.

How To Make the Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
Step 1: Make the Custard Base
In a saucepan, whisk together the sugar, flour, and salt. Slowly pour in the milk while whisking continuously to avoid lumps. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until it starts to thicken.
Step 2: Temper the Eggs
In a separate bowl, beat the egg yolks. Add a small amount of the hot milk mixture to the yolks, whisking to temper. Then pour the tempered yolks back into the saucepan, stirring constantly. Cook until the mixture is thick enough to coat the back of a spoon.
Step 3: Add Flavor
Remove the saucepan from heat. Stir in the butter and vanilla extract until fully melted and smooth.
Step 4: Assemble the Layers
In a large serving dish or individual cups, layer vanilla wafers on the bottom, followed by banana slices, then a layer of warm custard. Repeat the layers, ending with a layer of custard.
Step 5: Chill or Serve Warm
You can serve the pudding while it’s still warm and silky or refrigerate it for a few hours until fully chilled. The wafers will soften and absorb the pudding for an ultra-creamy texture.
How to Serve and Store Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
This pudding is meant to be scooped generously into bowls and enjoyed without formality. You can serve it warm right after assembling, or chilled after a few hours in the fridge. Either way, it feeds about 6 to 8 people, making it perfect for gatherings or leftovers to love the next day.
To store, cover the dish tightly with plastic wrap and refrigerate for up to 3 days. The bananas may brown slightly, but the flavor stays heavenly.
What to Serve With Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding?
Vanilla Bean Ice Cream
The extra chill and creaminess make it a perfect pairing.
Sweet Tea
No Southern dessert table is complete without a tall glass of iced sweet tea.
Barbecue Ribs
After a smoky, savory main course, banana pudding feels like a natural finish.
Fried Chicken
The crispy, juicy richness of fried chicken sets up the custard dessert beautifully.
Buttermilk Biscuits
If you’re doing a Southern brunch, why not let banana pudding double as dessert?
Grilled Peaches
Layered fruit flavors with the pudding is a match made in summer heaven.
Bourbon Whipped Cream
Add a dollop on top for a grown-up twist.
Want More Southern Dessert Ideas?
If you enjoyed this Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding, here are more Southern-inspired desserts from Luna Meals to try next:
- Southern Hummingbird Cake
- Reese’s Peanut Butter Banana Bread
- Easy Banana Cream Pie
- Southern Banana Cobbler
- Canned Biscuit Sugar Donuts
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Conclusion
Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding is more than just a nostalgic dessert—it’s a connection to simpler times and shared family tables. Whether you’re making it for the first time or the fiftieth, it never fails to deliver smiles and second helpings.

Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding
- Total Time: 30 minutes
- Yield: 6–8 servings
- Diet: Vegetarian
Description
Old Fashioned Southern Banana Pudding is a nostalgic dessert layered with creamy vanilla custard, ripe bananas, and vanilla wafers. This Southern classic is a comforting, homemade treat perfect for gatherings or weeknight indulgence.
Ingredients
3 cups whole milk
¾ cup granulated sugar
⅓ cup all-purpose flour
¼ teaspoon salt
3 large egg yolks
2 tablespoons butter
1½ teaspoons vanilla extract
4 ripe bananas
1 box vanilla wafers
Instructions
1. In a saucepan, whisk together sugar, flour, and salt.
2. Slowly pour in the milk while whisking constantly to avoid lumps.
3. Cook over medium heat, stirring until the mixture thickens.
4. In a separate bowl, beat the egg yolks.
5. Add a small amount of the hot milk mixture into the yolks to temper.
6. Pour the tempered yolks back into the saucepan, stirring continuously.
7. Cook until the pudding is thick enough to coat the back of a spoon.
8. Remove from heat and stir in butter and vanilla extract until smooth.
9. In a serving dish, layer vanilla wafers, banana slices, and warm custard.
10. Repeat the layers, ending with custard on top.
11. Serve warm or refrigerate for a few hours before serving chilled.
Notes
Use ripe but firm bananas to avoid mushy texture.
For extra decadence, top with whipped cream or meringue.
Letting it sit overnight enhances the flavor even more.
- Prep Time: 15 minutes
- Cook Time: 15 minutes
- Category: Dessert
- Method: Stovetop
- Cuisine: Southern
Nutrition
- Serving Size: 1 cup
- Calories: 320
- Sugar: 28g
- Sodium: 180mg
- Fat: 10g
- Saturated Fat: 5g
- Unsaturated Fat: 4g
- Trans Fat: 0g
- Carbohydrates: 52g
- Fiber: 2g
- Protein: 5g
- Cholesterol: 85mg


